one of the lesson tat i finally learned by heart...
wat i mean is "apologizing doesn't mean that u r WRONG while the othr 1 is RIGHT. it simply means tat u value the RELATIONSHIP much more than ya EGO". irregardless of family members, ya partners or even friends...
when i was a kido bac then, i hate 2apologize. though it's juz a simple word - "SORRY".
guess not juz a guy cn b EGO, bt i too always wanted to b the one who's RIGHT. always like to argue on certain issues which i think i'm right & things starts to heat up.. of course, no1 usually will admit tat they're wrong. so, wat left behind was a scar in a relationship.
wat do i gain frm there?! always turn out gettin ignored by the ppl who i care the most & hav to suffer myself at the same time! was the argument worth the price?! no more laughter or sharing wf the person i care of...*think...think...think...*think i rather hav a gd relationship by juz apologizing, saying "SORRY" doesn't really harm me much, do they?! of course need to b sincere as well.
moreover, wat IF something unexpected happen between u or the othr party & u dun get 2c them anymore on the next day...yea...i know...i think too much... bt cn u guarantee tat nothing bad will happen 2mrw then?! SO, i've decided to throw away my "EGO" now onwards & happily say "SORRY" wf no regrets for 2mrw!! HOW BOUT U?! =)
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